Your greatest ally, just might be yourself. One of the best people you can invest in is yourself. The best thing you can do for you, is to turn your vibes, all the way up.
Positive Feelings, Better Than Positive Thinking.
Forget about positive thinking, it’s all about positive feeling. Arguably, it’s easier to control or manage how you feel and doing so is likely to then impact your thought process. Conversely, thinking positive may have little to no impact on how you feel. (Although obviously this all may vary from person to person). Nevertheless, even when we are faced with the utmost adversity, we’d do well to remember to manage our feelings by being as calm as possible.
It’s all about being cool and calm, about what is out of our control and absolutely on fire, passionate and intense about what is in our control. That, is the ideal balance between the duality that faces all humanity as we journey through life.
Moreover, developing a keen awareness for the things that make you feel good is extremely beneficial. Particularly because our thoughts or opinions tend to only allow for a limited amount of flexibility. Whilst we always have the power to feel good internally, regardless of whatever we are going through. Arguably, it is easier to do your best, when you’re in the best (most positive) mood.
Tell Yourself That Life Is A One Way Trip.
We’re all on a one way, journey through life. Being conservative definitely has its place and time. Nevertheless, make a habit out of being your best and putting forward your best effort.
Use whatever you are passionate about to empower yourself to take consistent, quality action. Which in turn helps you build a resumé of infinite value, to yourself. Bet on yourself. In the long run, people doing what they love to do will almost always outperform those motivated by other principles.
Most of the time, we underachieve by playing too small. Playing it safe, except when it comes to matters of personal safety, never helped anyone. As all sports fans know, a team is more likely to lose by playing to avoid losing, than they are if they simply play to win.
Act Like The Win Is Guaranteed.
Live your life as though, winning was the only option. We’re all alive right now and thus far, we have survived one hundred percent of the challenges we’ve faced
That really is an incredible statistic that we all can be proud of. We may be uncertain about the details, however, we can all take some solace in our ability to survive the various challenges that life sends our away.
If we can survive all of those different obstacles. Chances are that we have survived those different things for a reason. However, the really cool part is, we get to define and decide what that reason is. We get to say, we survived all that, so that we can do all of this.
The reality is, life is relentless. The moments march on by whether we are aware of them or not. Time keeps ticking by, whether we have the flu, or we are feeling fly (read: good). Which means, the next moment is coming whether we are ready for it or not.
We can choose to be alert, prepared and to take ownership over what we do with our lives. Conversely, we can let life control us as time creates an ever increasing gap between where we are and where we want to be. That, is the fork in the road that lies in front of us.
Even though it is an option. It nevertheless is a no-brainer. Clearly our best option is to turn our energy, our vibes, all the way up in preparation for whatever the next moment brings us. If we must suffer “loss or defeat”. Let it be because the next person was unprepared or unable to appreciate what we brought to the table. Rather than us self sabotaging, or playing small, or conservatively.
The real goal is ourselves anyway. Everything that is outside of ourselves, tends to be out of our control. At best, we can influence the world around us. Meanwhile, our own world is the one that is more fully under our control. In the same way that we’ve survived one hundred percent of our experiences. We also, spend all of our time in the presence of ourselves. The company we have in addition to ourselves, may fluctuate, but the one person that we are always with, invariably, is us.
Be Prepared To Save Yourself.
For this reason, we should never take lightly, the importance of mastering our own energy. Investing in ourselves and the facilitating of our own personal development is a top priority. This is because, the one person you can count on the most, is probably you. If you’re in trouble or under duress, you, are probably the one that is going to have to rescue you.
Now, perhaps, you are blessed to have an exceptional support system. Maybe you have several people that you can always count on. However, those people have lives to lead too. Moreover they are human and mathematically speaking you are the one best placed to be there one hundred percent of the time. They are best placed to be there one hundred percent of the time – for themselves.
Much like when you catch a plane and are advised to put on your life jacket before helping others. That same principle applies to life in general, in the real world too. We primarily have to ensure our own survival before we can help ensure that others survive too.
Which brings this article full circle. The best way that you can survive and even thrive, is by you turning your vibes all the way up!!!! Try to perfect the habit of being your best self as much as is humanly possible. Listening to the best music that you can lay your hands on. Consume the best content you can, because you are what you consume. Plan everything. Exercise foresight in everything. Be intentional about it all. You already are a work of art but how you spend your time, eventually creates your legacy.
Decide what you want that to be ahead of time. Keep using your powers of imagination to build a clear vision of exactly what you want out of life.
That clarity, coupled with a concrete commitment to chasing your desires, is what will make your dreams becoming reality just, a matter of time.
If this world paints dreamers in a negative light. It is only because they know the power that is available to those that dream.
Do yourself a favor and turn the power, all the way up, on your vibes. That power, will help you to be your best self and to live, your best life.