Forget the Fockers, have You met your haters yet?
Your haters, are a very special group. Arguably, your haters are the best source of motivation that you will find outside of yourself.
How Can You Use Your Haters As Elevators?
Haters, can either bring out the worst in you, or the best in you. It is your job to realise this and ensure that it is the latter. Perhaps the first objective to aim for when dealing with haters is maintaining control of your energy. If you remain positive whilst haters speak about you negatively, it then becomes far harder, for the haters to stop you.
In this life, energy is everything. We might be human beings, with physical bodies made up of flesh and blood. However, our energies and vibes are what define us in real time, from moment to moment. As difficult as it is to remain positive all of the time, it’s worth remembering that a temporary setback, should never be allowed to dictate how we feel. We can either progressively learn to use discipline to manage our emotions during tough situations. Or, let our emotions run rampant during tough times, thereby making a situation worse than it was to begin with.
Moreover, one of the best things we can do is see the humor and use laughter to keep our energies positive, during challenging times.
Always Prioritize Having Positive Energy.
We all tend to know how to handle things when they go our way. What’s really important though is how we handle adversity and in particular, our haters. Self awareness is key when it comes to managing ourselves. Empathy is key when it comes to dealing with the haters. One of the best things you can do (for all involved) is reach a place of understanding for what is motivating the hate, through empathy.
As much as we all like to envision ourselves occupying the moral high ground. The truth is we all have our faith in humanity shaken from time to time. Furthermore, many of us have been hurt and felt pain as a result of the actions of others. Sometimes the haters are hating on us, for reasons that have nothing to do with us.
Some humility on our end and a resolve to give others a little grace (because we never know what they are going through) is a great way to keep positive and momentum, as we try and live our best lives. Haters and how they make us feel, are really important. How we conceptualize haters, is also important.
The Positive Side Of A Hater.
The best name for a hater is motivator. Imagine that we have gone through soul searching and research to find whatever journeys that are of value to us. Only to subsequently meet a hater that directly or indirectly, then tell us to take another route. Is that acceptable? Of course, the answer is no.
The truth is, if you had any problem getting yourself fired up with a desire to pursue your dreams. The haters should then solve that problem for you and get you fired up. Who is anyone else to tell you to stop pursuing what you, deem to be your life’s purpose and work.
Such a person is probably someone that you should ignore and defy emphatically. As mentioned before, it is all about harnessing positive emotions, to inspire positive actions that with time, leave an exceptional legacy. However, when around hate or haters, remaining positive, is very challenging.
The key though, is to never stay, in our negative emotions. Every negative emotion or situation, has a positive emotion opposite to it. If the atmosphere is hateful, you are probably best served to use love to overcome the adversity. If a situation is frustrating, you are probably best served to summon patience, humor and optimism, to overcome it all.
The main idea is to understand where you are at emotionally and then figuring out what is the best way to move on from that negativity in a positive way. It’s worth remembering that experiencing some level of adversity at some point, is a part of life. Moreover, it is also worth remembering that mastering how to overcome adversity is how one becomes unstoppable.
The only way any of us can ever reach our intended destination after we embark on any journey, is us finding anyway, to keep moving forward toward our goals. Your haters are more than just some casual occurence. They are the prelude that could preclude you from achieving your goal. Which basically just means your haters are really important.
The Last Obstacle, To Becoming Unstoppable.
Furthermore, arguably, your haters are the last obstacle in between you and your dreams. The main person that can stop you from achieving your dreams is the person in the mirror. Once you are out of your own way, haters, are the last human obstacles in your way.
Whenever they are around pay attention to everything, them and yourself. Make a habit out of finding the silver lining whenever they are around and aligning yourself with it.
Once you master being able to do this. You master being unstoppable and as soon as you achieve that, you know it is just a matter of time, before you achieve your goal.